The Swingset Takes Desire 2018
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Every year, we at Life on the Swingset: The Podcast host a full resort takeover of the greatest place on Earth: Desire Resort – Riviera Maya in Cancun, Mexico. This all inclusive resort boasts a beautiful beach, pool, and hot tub, four excellent restaurants, three full bars, and, most importantly, a place to be yourself.

Since every room at the resort is booked by our group, we are able to fully bend and shape the trip to be the most inclusive and spectacularly geeky trip that Desire sees all year.

On this trip, we curate theme nights, evening entertainment, music, activities, workshops, and more, and strive to bring together straight, bi, pansexual, and gay swingers, polyamorists, nudists, quads, triads, couples, exhibitionists, BDSMers, and those just curious and looking to explore.

We believe that everyone has something new, something exciting that they’d love to try, and we want to give the tools, education, space, and encouragement to do just that at The Swingset Takes Desire.

We host workshops on non-monogamy, anal play, flogging, and more. We are the first group to erect a full BDSM Dungeon for a night in the disco, complete with St Andrews Crosses, flogging benches, and a suspension station, along with workshops to unleash your inner dom or sub. Every year sees play parties, gang bangs, and orgies both hosted and pop-up, themed costume nights, live podcast recordings, karaoke, wine socials, cocktails, prizes and giveaways, foam parties, and just relaxing by the pool, beach, or in the hot tub.

It’s all there for your exploratory delight, a sexy menu just waiting for you to participate as much or as little as you’re comfortable doing. There is no one way to do Desire, and we’d never presume to suggest which way is the perfect one for you.

Your hosts for this Magical Hedonist Tour are Dylan, Ginger, and Cooper from Life on the Swingset: The Podcast; JV and Shara from Ending the Sexual Dark Age; and the incomparable Tristan Taormino, educator, feminist porn filmmaker, and author of the non-monogamy bible Opening Up.

The Swingset Takes Desire is a place to let go and be yourself, free from the confines of the boring part of the world, where we can embrace the fact that our lives truly aren’t like other people’s. Join us in the spirit of inclusivity, exploration, and glorious hedonism! You’ll be glad you came.

Desire is an intimately sized resort, and the number of rooms available are limited and sell out fast. If you’re interested in coming to paradise with us, it’s a great idea to fill out our booking request form to the right NOW!

Our travel agency is Char Travel, and they will take very good care of you.

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Desire 2018

Events & Workshops

Here are some of the events and workshops you’ll be able to participate in on our trip. (Or not, you do you!)

Speed Dating • Pegging & Anal Demo
Themed Orgies • Gang Bangs
Foam Parties • Karaoke
Flogging Demo • Live Podcasting
Wine Social • Bourbon Tasting

Theme Nights

While Desire Resorts – Riviera Maya has their own regular theme nights, we change them to fit our crowd better.

Pantheon •  Cabaret
Sexy Sci-Fi  •  Fetish & Kink
Stage & Screen  •  Pride / Rainbow
Fractured Fairy Tales


These rates includes seven nights for two people, 1 room, food and drink included. Deposit is only one night’s stay

Deluxe Garden View room: $4,130
Superior Garden View room: $4,340
Deluxe Ocean View room: $4,620
Garden View Jacuzzi Suite: $4,970
Ocean View Jacuzzi Suite: $5,530
Passion Suites: $6,993

Availability for stays of less than seven nights is limited, so please contact us now if you need an adjusted schedule.

Missives from Paradise

Every year, we record a live podcast from the resort. Below you’ll find episodes recorded on the trip and those looking back and reflecting on the trip.

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