Nights at Desire are your opportunity to be a part of the themed masquerades. The Swingset’s own Angelica and Damien have carefully curated the theme nights for the past three years of trips. Below are this year’s themes.
Saturday: A Pantheon of Gods and Myth
A bacchanal is awaiting your presence. Join Bacchus as an acolyte, follower, or fellow god, demigod, or demiurge. Old god or new, the only thing certain is we will all revel in the pleasures of the flesh.
Sunday: Welcome to Cabaret!
What’s your poison? Weimar Republic, or early 20th Century Paris? Absinthe addled artists, decadent dandies and players, masters of ceremony, cancan dancers, performers and audience members of all genders. “Welcome to Cabaret!”
Monday: Sexy Sci Fi – A New Hope
Star Wars, or Star Trek? Doctor Who or The Fifth Element? Maybe the purple haired beauties from U.F.O? Let your imagination run wild, and your sci fi sexual exploits shine.
Tuesday: What’re You Into? – Fetish & Kink
What tickles your fancy in that ‘special’ way? Leather, latex, lace, PVC, or rope? Maybe something else? Indulge your bliss, we all want to see. This theme night occurs on the same night as our Dungeon Disco takeover.
Wednesday: Once Upon a Sexy Time – Fractured Fairy Tales
Come as your favorite, prince, princess, plucky sidekick, fairy godparent, or evil villain or henchperson. The only requirement here is that these stories all have to have (cough) happy endings. Kudos for the most bent, twisted, perverted, or original interpretation.
Thursday: Skin Flicks – Stage & Screen
Pick a character or star from your favorite play, film, or music genre. Plunder the best/worst films, plays, musicals, or musical artists that pop culture has to offer. Rocky Horror, Hedwig, Gone With the Wind, Bill & Ted, Romeo & Juliet, Elvis, Gaga… the list is endless.
Friday: Hoist the Colors High – Pride / Rainbow
Show your true colours, fluorescent pink, lipstick red, shiny black, or fly your Pride flag proudly with all the colours of the rainbow. Show us who you really are, or who you would be if you could be anything you desired.
“SSDesire is a never fail week of hedonism and growth. An amazing combination of people, place, pleasure, and learning. We wouldn't miss it!”
“An absolutely transformative event - thoughtful, sex-positive, body-positive, bi-positive community, great education, & tons of sex. What more could you ask for?”
"We have yet to find a group of people as diverse, welcoming, open, nerdy, kinky, thoughtful, self aware, and sexually fun anywhere but SSDesire."
“These people are our tribe! Having found them, we'd move heaven and earth to join them in paradise every November.”
"The only place we've ever found where you can have a two hour conversation about horror movies, as well as a two hour gang bang going on within a few yards of you."
"In 10 years of going to Desire, we've never experienced the resort with the incredible amount of inclusiveness and kindness that this trip and group has."
"We met amazing people, had wonderful new experiences, and relaxed more fully than we had in years. We signed up for the next year before we left the resort!"
"SSDesire for us was an awakening that this type of inclusive community we've been looking for does actually exist."
“This is the most diverse, passionate, compassionate, sexy, & wonderfully geeky group of people we have ever met. We can't imagine life without the Swingset trip to look forward to.”
“Being in paradise with my love, surrounding by sexy nerds in various states of undress, is as close to perfect an experience as I can imagine. (Plus tacos & pizza at 2 am.)”
"SSDesire is the highlight of our year!"
“It was amazing to have many welcoming, open minded, intelligent, and sexy people all gathered in the same place at the same time!”
"Whether you're swinger, poly, or kinky, you'll find like-minded people to explore and connect with in a safe, sane, consent-focused environment."
“This was hands down the best vacation of my life! A whole resort reverberating with the energy of love and affection!”
“The warmth and love present throughout the group changed my perception of ‘swingers.’ I wouldn't consider doing a trip like this with anyone else.”
“Our first trip was amazing! The Swingset group is hands down the gold standard.”
“This trip was absolutely amazing! It was an environment where we could be 100% ourselves, uncensored, & still be loved & accepted by a community.”
“Come for the experience, the discovery, the companionship, or just a really thorough fuck. Make it what you want, and leave your expectations at the door. You'll not be disappointed.”